
An Ugly Truth
Disclaimers:
1) I strongly advise that you read the preceding articles in this series. Not just because I refer back to them, but because at the beginning there are disclaimers that will prevent you from leaving me angry comments about things that I’ve clearly explained. Failing that, here are more.
2) This second half is about racism, written by a Black woman. I talk about white people. I talk about white women. I talk about white supremacy. I talk about racism, sexism, and misogyny. I talk about the elitism and entitlement of nerd fandom. I talk about the presence and weaponization of white femininity. I talk about racial hierarchies within fandom. I talk about misogynoir. I talk about police brutality. I talk about Taylor Swift, Maria Sharapova, and Miley Cyrus. If any of these topics cause you pain, do not read any further. If any of these topics cause you anger, do not read any further. If any of these topics prompt you to use the words/phrases tumblrina, SJW, special snowflake, race-baiter, race card, libtard, “you’re the REAL racist,” or anything similar, do not read any further.
3) Following from that, if you do want to keep reading, brace yourself. This post is about racism and it’s written by someone who’s been dealing with it for her whole life while Trump is president. I’m out of fucks. I’m fuck-deficient. I’m on negative fucks. My name is Vivian, not Mammy; I will not be holding your hand. Alternatively, if my style isn’t for you but you still want to learn about fandom racism (or if you don’t care about Westallen or Snowbarry but still want to learn), there will be a further reading section at the end of this series.
4) Read number 2 again.
5) I’ve seen Snowbarry shippers – and fans in general – that don’t ship Westallen. Snowbarry shippers that keep to themselves, share fan art, write fanfic, and generally stay in their lane. They don’t beg the writers to kill Iris off, or @ Candice Patton with nonsense, or spread rumours about her, or antagonise other members of the fandom. I’m going to be very clear on this: I’m not talking about that first group of people; I’m talking about the second. If I say “Snowbarry shippers do this,” and you don’t do that, I am not talking about you.
6) Read the last sentence of number 5 again, then read number 2 again.
7) Also, if you happen to be, say, a white woman, and you don’t do one of the things that I say white women do, I’m not talking about you. I’m talking specifically about the white women who do those things. Seeing as I don’t have enough words, consider this my blanket “not all men/white women/people who hate X character for whatever reason are Y.”
8) Finally, as before, no hate. We welcome (and love) discussion, but hate will be deleted.
So far, we’ve looked at various reasons for people shipping Olicity and Snowbarry. We’ve looked at the canon love interests being in positions in the narrative compared to the relatively passive position of the other woman. We looked at the misogyny and sexism that lies underneath the expectations of women. We looked at the intelligence snobbery that permeates fandom, the kind of woman that’s generally acceptable, and the lack of space afforded to women to be human.
We finally came to look at subtext, and how what writers weave underneath their explicit storytelling can lead people to see potential for romantic relationships. However, it’s at this point that the similarities between Olicity and Snowbarry stop. Because when it comes to Subtext, Olicity shippers use what’s going on in the show to justify their shipping, while Snowbarry shippers are notorious for either misinterpreting what happens or making up scenarios to support what they want to happen. Because they want to ship Barry with Caitlin, they use any excuse to say that they’re in love. One of the reasons they do this is because they don’t like Iris. And one of the reasons they don’t like her is because she’s Black.
- “If X Was White I Would Still Hate Them”
- “I Like All the Colours of the Rainbow, Just Not On X”
- “I’m Not Racist, I Have Black Friends”
I’m not racist, you sigh deeply, already penning a four-thousand-word paper in your defence, I just don’t like Iris. She’s a badly-written character. She has no chemistry with Barry. She’s a bitch. She’s not a scientist. She doesn’t belong in STAR Labs. It’s not racism. It has nothing to do with her skin colour. I wouldn’t like her if she were green with purple polka dots.
As you may have noticed, I’m Black and a woman, so all of these arguments are old news to me. I’ve always been morbidly fascinated with the reaction of fans who are called racist for not liking Iris. There’s generally fervent denial, first of all. Most of the time they’ll respond with what I just wrote, followed by how they like Cisco, or Joe, or Wally. Which is my first problem with fandom’s definition of racism. You see, when someone hears “you’re racist,” they tend to assume the accuser thinks they descend into ferocious fits of uncontrollable rage whenever a person who is visibly non-white dares to be onscreen. And that think that because they don’t, they can’t be racist and so their reasons are perfectly valid.
This, to be quite frank, is bullshit.
The general consensus is that because someone isn’t wearing a white hood or taking up tiki torches, they aren’t racist. And while this desire to be praised for doing the bare minimum isn’t new to me, it’s indicative of the actual problem that comes when discussing racism. People think that it’s binary. People say “I am not a racist” like they say “I am not a Gemini,” as if being racist is something you either are or aren’t.
(And for the person who is already racing to Dictionary.com to provide me with the hollow, contextless definition of racism, please stop. That tactic will not work on me; I was not born yesterday).
Racism is often simply defined as prejudice or discrimination based on one’s skin colour, or the belief of one race’s superiority over another. This definition is succinct, pretty, and ultimately useless because it does not take into account the history behind the term. It’s designed to be neutral, and assumes that everyone is on a level playing field when it comes to race and racial issues, when anyone with half a brain cell can see that we aren’t. Many fans, from what I’ve seen, have an almost obnoxiously naïve view of racism, so whenever people accuse them of it, they get extremely defensive and call the accuser “the real racist,” before refusing to listen to any reasoning about it. Or that they seriously think we think they hate a character just because of their skin colour. Which…really? Seriously? Nobody thinks you hate a character purely because of their skin colour, that’s ridiculous. Unless they are six years old and learned the definition of racism yesterday. But that’s indicative of the fact that not everyone is using the same definition of racism or even understands how it works both in the real world and online.
I’m going to channel Quincy Jones today and name names. Your article is chalked full of really great information and detail. The ears and hearts that really need to hear this…will not, unfortunately. For me, it breaks my heart to revisit all the hate that has been directed at Candice for 4 years. A good portion of that hate was acerbated by Danielle’s shameful promotion of a possible Barry/Caitlin storyline and Andrew K’s orchestrated effort to promote Danielle and diminish Candice through show promotion clips, product marketing, feeding narratives to news media cronies like Natalie Abrams, Alan Spinwell, etc. So the grass roots groups that support candice quite frankly are the true heroes in this journey. I shall forever remain bitter that the black ran media outlets like black girl nerds and black nerds problems never supported candice while the traditional white news outlets piled on the hate.
p.s. Indians should be added to groups that spew hate at candice/Iris because it elevates them in the coveted white fanboy club.
Love the Quincy Jones shout-out, haha!
I do agree that some of the people who need to hear this the most won’t hear it, but that’s because for the most part, they’ve already refused to listen to discussion about this topic. I wanted to both explain my (very, very complicated) feelings about it, break down all the nuances of racism that Iris/Candice and characters of colour in general receive, and perhaps educate someone who actually wanted to understand.
I have seen what you’re talking about with regards to Danielle Panabaker and Andrew Kreisburg. While I can’t confidently speak to their motivations because I don’t feel entirely comfortable with putting that out there without substantial proof – for those reasons, we won’t be discussing that topic in this series – I agree that what they did fed into the larger picture of Candice’s erasure, whether it was intentional or not. I’m sorry to say that I do think a lot of it was just the casual racism of media latching onto the white woman and trying to push her, which would have happened whether Panabaker and Kreisburg did anything on purpose – which, of course, I’m not confirming, because I don’t know exactly what happened.
I think that fandom is ultimately going to attract negative, badly-behaved people no matter what happens, but I do think that Candice Patton’s fans have ultimately been very positive for her. And I was as disappointed as you when I heard that those sites weren’t supportive of her in the beginning.
I think I ultimately made my point that there’s no person of colour who can’t possibly practice anti-Black racism, whether they’re aware of it or not. I wasn’t excluding anyone from that definition.
Thank you for reading, I hope you enjoy the rest!
I feel sure that I have posted this before, but thank you for this, Vivian. I am not a fan of stan culture and of glorifying celebrities because all our faves are problematic. But it’s difficult to just watch the show and judge characters on their own merits when the one character that looks like you is the one singled out for excessive scrutiny. Not only that, but it’s a pattern observed in other fandoms too. I spent the entire first season stressed because I wanted Iris to know Barry’s secret just so people could stop calling her stupid. I didn’t fully ship Westallen until after Patty left in season 2 because I was waiting for the bait and switch. Without this vitriol, it’s difficult to know how I would have felt about the character of Iris. The fans with their pitchforks made me feel defensive, unwelcome.
I remember when the Iris West Defense Squad, which formed organically, decided that they would push back. The Flash seemed to come at a time when those fans, many of whom were black women, had had enough of these patterns of devaluing black female characters on TV. It felt like in fighting for Iris West, they were fighting for Martha Jones, for Lacey Porter, for Guinevere, for characters who fandoms had rained on with negativity. This time, that (white) nonsense was not going to fly.
It’s also why they decided to create trends to flood Candice’s and the producers mentions with positivity. Why they started to ask about Iris to reclaim the Iris West and Westallen hashtags, to leave pro-Iris comments on popular reviewing websites, and below YouTube videos. It’s why some brave souls even tried to be positive on Facebook which has some of the worst racist hate I have ever seen.
Iris and Candice are not perfect nor should they have to be. When I read or listen to critiques of Iris from this side of the fandom, I listen and engage because I don’t have to deal with that initial suspicion that this person hates Iris for her color. We don’t have to like everything Candice says, or Iris does. We should have the freedom to treat her like any other character. But as an article on Africa is a Country states “The fury aimed at black women is almost always disproportionate to the offense. Ironically, this paradox is precisely why stanning has become such an important – albeit double-edged – act of solidarity.”
Some stans do some cringe worthy things. But by calling Iris fans a hive, or a swarm, or loud, by dismissing their anger, they are doing a thing that racists have perfected: the art of ignoring context. It’s the same as “What if there was a White History Month?” crowd, or “Affirmative Action is reverse racism” crowd. People who refuse to empathize, who don’t think about cause and effect, about history. They are gaslighters.
The value in this series is that it articulates the context for that rate person willing to learn. It’s a reference that lays it all out there for people to see, complette with receipts. So that no one can be allowed to pretend that their lies are true. Thank you so much and more power to you. And Happy Black History Month.
I don’t really know what to say to such a wonderful and thought-provoking comment, but I’ll try.
First of all, I’ve always disliked stan culture. It usually starts out as genuine admiration and respect, but it almost always devolves into people crossing lines in the name of people they like. It’s almost as if they internalise being a fan of that person so much that it becomes a part of their identity, so they end up doing weird stuff. And honestly, glorifying celebrities too much takes the fun out of enjoying them because then you spend all your time hoping they don’t do something problematic so you can’t like them anymore. But if I go into all the ways I hate stan culture we’ll be here forever, so.
I do admit that my personal favourite thing about season 1 is that I could watch it without fandom’s bullshit clouding my judgement. I loved all the characters, but Barry and Iris were my favourite, and I always felt safe in saying it. I do get the defensive feeling, though.
I agree with everything you said about the IWDS and Iris/Candice not having to be perfect. I think perfection is often expected because we know we get ripped apart without it. That’s why people stan Black women so hard – because they know the vitriol directed at them will be far worse than what they’ve actually done. That quote is very apt!
I’ve seen way too much stuff that Iris fans do that go right over the edge, and that’s why I said I have no interest in defending them. But I also wasn’t about to apologise for the feelings that led to people doing it.
The whole idea of this was to give context and help people learn, so I’m happy that came across for you! And yes, there will be more receipts haha. Happy Black History Month to you! I’m English, so ours is in October, but much love <3
I read every word. This is one of thee most powerful pieces I’ve read in a long time. I absolutely adore Candice Patton. But I don’t adore her because of her character. I adore her because In the face of all the hate and nonsense, she still manages to shine. She’s using her position to educate and tell her story. She speaks up when appropriate. What bugs me most is folks feel as though they shouldn’t have to educate others on past wrongs – racism. In other words, people should just know that their behavior is wrong and correct themselves. How on earth do we expect people who’ve been misinformed in the first place to correct their own behavior without speaking up??? We have to continue and recreate the dialogue. But we have to do it without shooting below the belt and coming for the neck. Ultimately, as you’ve said, we all have built in biases based on our experiences. It’s sad that this conversation continues till this day. But we owe it to our ancestors to continue the fight until won. We must speak up and be heard.
I suspect, against advice, Candice has read the comments aimed at her and I imagine, she’s done a lot of soul searching. How she stomachs it from either side – her fandom and Danielle’s fandom – I’ll never know or understand. Because she continues to do the job she signed up for. If I ever had the chance to just ask her how she manages it, I would. Because idk that I could. Idk if I could go to a job everyday where I know I’m not supported; where people have assessed me as less than for no other reason than I was born this way.
I pray for our souls daily. Please, keep writing because this one made me stop and think. I realize now that me and mine have so much more work to do. Fights not over yet. We owe it to ourselves to keep this dialogue going.
Thank you.
Hi, fellow Brit 🙂
So, 2.5 years after you wrote this excellent post, I got here indirectly via a convo I accidentally started on Goodreads about a book series – followed a link, then followed another link etc.
I just want to know if you have ever watched The Walking Dead? Michonne (no surname…!) is played by the very beautiful but very dark-skinned, wide-nosed and lovely lipped Danai Gurira. Seriously, the woman is STUNNING. So not only did she/her character get all the shit for being an unsuitable partner because she is black, but she also got it triple-y (not a word, I know!) for being the epitome of a fully African looking black woman. It was a case of some people (including many black folks) being puzzled that Rick, the white male main character (who, coincidentally, has played opposite a number of WOC as love interests over his career), choosing her over another equally gorgeous but different black female character with lighter skin and more euro-centric features… despite clear evidence of a) the off the charts chemistry between the two actors playing Michonne and Rick since the beginning, and b) the narrative clearly pushing the fact it was the ONLY pairing that made sense for either of them.
And funnily enough, lots of people are great fans of Michonne as long as she ‘stays in her lane’ – which is fighting zombies with her impressive katana and not losing her ‘edge’… it was exhausting, and I was only introduced towards the end of it, never having been involved in any level of fandom before. Also, her on-screen character is vastly improved over the comic source material, but I’m going to get into that whole mess.
As an aside, I’m a HUGE Vampire Diaries (franchise) fan, but the Bonnie hate in the fandom and all the other race issues that are clearly played out on all the shows are astounding and does sour my enjoyment of them somewhat.
If you are a reader, you may be interested in this book I read last year which made me aware of the Merlin issue (I’ve never watched it) and discussed Bonnie Bennet, Hunger Games’ Rue and Hermione Granger too. Here’s the GR link https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/42129087-the-dark-fantastic?ac=1&from_search=true&qid=31TYUfoqub&rank=2